modernabomination:

“real trans people don’t do this” “real trans people don’t do that” i mean, you say that, but would you really be able to look a trans woman post-vaginoplasty in the eye and tell her she’s a faker because she’s not completely put out by having body hair? ya gonna tell a trans man with phalloplasty that he’s a transtrender because he doesn’t cry whenever he puts on a skirt?

“you can tell they’re not trans because they’re doing this thing i’m not comfortable with” you’re 17, your dysphoria is crushing you, and you have little to no experience actually navigating the world as your transitioned gender. of COURSE certain things SEEM Too Cis™ for you to fathom, everything is too hard for you to fathom right now. you have no room for anyone else’s experiences because you’re too busy being miserable and loud about it.